I will add a funny story for you and for your son that might put his mind at ease. I used to go to a naturist resort each summer with my cousin and my aunt and uncle. This was from age 16 to 18 or so, in the early and mid 1990s. My aunt used to take a few photos each summer of the family and our friends.
Last year my cousin, who is 35 now, found an old picture that she had never seen before. A picture of the two of us together, when I was 16 and she was 17. We are posing with one of my best friends from our trips to the resort, a boy named Stephen who was a year older than me. He’s in the middle, and Jodi and I are on either side, and we’ve got our arms around each other and everyone is smiling and no one is wearing anything but sandals.
Jodi found this photo and thought it was such a nice picture, we all looked happy, and at first she couldn’t figure out why she’d never seen it with the other family photos. Then she realized … Stephen had an erection. Apparently her mom didn’t want to include it with the other pictures because of that. But Jodi thought it was hilarious, and she couldn’t wait to show it to me. This young boy, his arms around two young girls, all of them naked, and he’s got an erection and a big old smile on his face. Cracked us up.
But the point? It was completely innocent. There was nothing lustful or inappropriate about it, and at the time we didn’t even notice it, so he must have covered up or done something about it pretty quickly. Tell your son that it’s no big deal unless he makes it a big deal. It’s natural.
Well, this whole story happened last summer, when my friend and I were spending our vacations in Palanga. We met two women from Riga who told us that they had found a nude beach on the coastline. They mentioned that ever since that time they had been sunbathing there, and, according to them, they were enjoying their time greatly. My friend had always been a reckless girl, and so she managed to talk me into trying out this kind of beaching during some hours. The next day we met those two women while having our breakfast and asked them how we could get to that nude beach. Having got all the necessary information we took off and headed straight there.
I should mention that the way to the beach was rather long and tangled, and I fully relied on my friend who seemed to lead the way unhampered in strict accordance to the directions given to us during the breakfast.
If you have ever been to this place you must know that the beach there consists mainly of dunes, that is the coastline is presented by hills and hollows which make this beach a wonderful place for peaceful pastime, far from the eyes of strangers. This made the matters still more complicated for us. Sure enough, we couldn’t have walked around looking behind each dune in search for nudists. But we were lucky. When we reached the place of our destination we saw a girl at some distance coming out of the water totally nude. Being quite sure that we have found the nude beach in question, we positioned ourselves for sunbathing in a sand hollow and got stripped. The weather was anything but hot, and so we had been just playing cards and sunbathed for a while. Finally the moment came when my friend and I started to get curious- after all, that was our debut one a nude beach, and we had managed to see only one nude girl so far! We decided to go bathing, and look for some more nudists. Moreover that we heard some voices not very far from us.
When we showed up from our hideout and started walking in the direction of water which was some 500 feet away. Our neighbors were our first disillusionment. In the nearest hollow we saw a young couple spending their time sunbathing. The guy was wearing his swimming trunks, and the girl was topless. Having decided that it is a small flock that has not a black sheep, we walked on- I am reminding that both of us were nude. You must have guessed by now that on our way towards the water we hadn’t met a single nude person. Instead, our parade created a true commotion. Practically all the male population of the beach decided that this was the right moment to take a refreshing plunge into the water. I made the last few paces with the feeling of losing my consciousness; our defiling was starting to remind a free strip show. The last straw was that when we finally reached the water we saw the girl whom we thought we had seen before bathing nude. She was wearing a swimsuit that was simply the skin color! But this way or that, it was her whom we felt somehow familiar with, so we approached her and asked where the nude beach was. Fortunately, she knew that place and gave us the exact directions. It turned out that we took a wrong turn while looking for the nude beach and rounded right in the place where regular beachers from the nearby hotel were spending time sunbathing. So, this is the story. It is rather embarrassing, but nevertheless, it is amusing.
During that trip we managed to find the nude beach after all; we spent great time there and even got acquainted with some native folks. By the by, those people were quite alright, without any abnormalities or something, as a variant for your vote outlet. I am not saying that after this my experience in nudism I became a true fan of nude beaching, but if there I were to choose between sunbathing wearing a swimsuit or nude, I am most likely to choose the latter.
MI guess I’ll do my first posting here since it asks about another first time thing. Ok, I’m Nathalie and my first ever time going really nude with other people around was two years ago when I was in high school. Four classmates and I went out to this small lake on one of the boy’s grandmother’s farm to go swimming during the summer (obviously). All 3 of us girls had swimsuits under our shorts and tops so it didn’t start out to be a skinny-dipping trip, just a place to swim. The two guys had cutoff jeans shorts and tshirts and they were going to swim like that (minus the shirts). Anyway, after we were there for awhile we really liked it because nobody was around and it was like a private little lake on private property. One of the boys was joking and said he should have brought some cards so we could play strip poker and one of the other girls said you don’t need cards to play strip poker, you can do Rock/paper/scissors and the loser has to take something off each time. The winner can challenge anyone they want to. The more they talked about it the more they acted like they were really going to do it. I was the quietest because I was probably most shy of the entire bunch and also I was self conscious about myself to the point I even dreaded taking showers in gym class in front of other girls.
They finally decided that one boy and one girl (luckily not me at first) would do the rock/paper/scissors thing and we’d play until somebody lost all their clothes. It couldn’t take long for SOMEONE to lose because I figured the girls are all wearing a two piece swimsuit and the guys either had one or two pieces of clothes on, I didn’t know if they were wearing undershorts or not.
Anyway, to hurry it up, the boy lost the first round but when he took off his shorts he still had undershorts on. So the girl challenged the same one again to try to get him totally naked but he won the second time so she had to take off her top, and so it went. Each time something came off it was thrown up on the rock at the edge of the lake so it wouldn’t get lost in the water. The funny part was everyone was standing in water pretty much up to their chest so the guys were pretty well hidden when they got naked and the girls just kind of bent their knees enough to keep the water level higher than their breasts when they took their tops off. Everyone continued to play until everyone was nude and I really felt pretty giddy about it and actually liked how it felt to be outside with absolutely nothing on.
The swimming and horsing around was fun and the longer we were there the less everyone tried to hide under the water. By the time we had to get out of the water and leave, all five of us were standing naked up on the rock together retrieving our swimsuits and shirts without making any effort to cover ourselves with our hands.
It was pretty strange to me to recognize that I felt LESS self-conscious standing with 2 guys and 2 other girls totally naked on that rock than I did in the school shower with girls in my gym class.
Since I was 17 then I didn’t get a chance to go nude in public again until I’d graduated from high school and started in college. On Spring Break nine of us went to St. Martin and spent 5 days at Orient Beach last year and that was the most fun yet!
If nothing else, I’ve learned that a tall, pale, skinny red-headed girl doesn’t look any worse naked than I do in a swimsuit, so why bother to wear one? I hope this posting is ok with everyone and I’m not breaking any rules or whatever. THANKS!